Teen Therapy

Finding the right therapist for your teenager can feel overwhelming. You want to help, but you're not always sure what to say to them or what to do next.

Is your teen struggling with any of these?

Anxiety: Excessive worrying, overthinking, social anxiety, panic, and difficulty managing uncertainty

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD): Intrusive thoughts, compulsions, reassurance seeking, checking, and mental rituals

Depression: Low mood, loss of interest, irritability, withdrawal, and feeling stuck

Perfectionism: Fear of making mistakes, unrealistic expectations, and feeling like nothing is ever good enough

Social and Relationship Challenges: Friendship difficulties, social pressures, people-pleasing, and navigating relationships

School-Related Stress: Academic pressure, performance anxiety, procrastination, and difficulty balancing responsibilities

Life Transitions: Changes in friendships, family dynamics, identity, independence, and other challenges that come with growing up

What will therapy with my teen look like?

My goal is to create an environment where your teen feels comfortable being themselves, asking questions, and even having a little fun. I know that not every teenager is excited about starting therapy. Some may be hesitant, unsure what to expect, or feel like they don't need it. That's okay! Building a genuine therapeutic relationship is an important part of the process. Rather than simply telling your teen what they should do, we work together to understand what's getting in their way and identify strategies that make sense for them.

Our work may include:

Understanding the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors:

Using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), we explore how thoughts, emotions, and behaviors influence one another. Your teen will learn to recognize unhelpful thinking patterns and develop more effective ways of responding to challenging situations.

Facing fears instead of avoiding them

For teens struggling with anxiety or OCD, avoiding uncomfortable situations can provide temporary relief but often makes anxiety stronger over time. Through Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), we gradually practice facing fears, resisting compulsions, and learning to tolerate uncertainty.

Learning to get unstuck

Using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), we work on making room for uncomfortable thoughts and feelings without allowing them to dictate every decision. The goal is to help your teen move toward the things that matter to them, even when anxiety shows up.

The goal is to help your teen become more confident handling challenges independently, with skills they can continue using way after therapy ends.

How can parents be involved?

When your teenager is struggling, it's natural to want to step in and make things better. You may find yourself offering reassurance, helping them avoid stressful situations, or trying to solve problems before they become overwhelming.

While these responses often come from a place of love, they can sometimes unintentionally reinforce anxiety and make it harder for teens to develop confidence in their own abilities.

Parent involvement can be an important part of treatment. Depending on your teen's needs, this may include parent consultations to discuss treatment goals, progress, and ways to support skill development at home.

We may also work on identifying family accommodation patterns and finding ways to support your teen without reinforcing avoidance or anxiety-related behaviors.

At the same time, it's important for teenagers to have a space of their own where they can feel comfortable being open and developing independence. Confidentiality and appropriate parent involvement are both important parts of the therapeutic process.

What about virtual therapy?


In my experience, teletherapy is effective for most adolescents 13 and older. I also see preteens who are successfully completing therapy via videoconference. I would be happy to have a discussion to determine if your preteen/adolescent would be appropriate for teletherapy services! For clients worried about privacy from other members living in the home, I recommend using a sound machine and I also talk to parents directly to receive their consent that their child’s privacy will be respected.